All G.
Close friends it is.
That's what he said.
It's decided. It's done. It's over; wait, it never began. Who am I kidding?
Giving a new meaning to the word 'Complicated'.
All G.
Close friends it is.
That's what he said.
It's decided. It's done. It's over; wait, it never began. Who am I kidding?
I know what's good for me. I know what I need to be doing. Yet why is it always so difficult to do what needs to be done, even when it concerns the well-being of self?
I think letting go of the feeling of having someone want me is what truly scares me. I am trying to figure my thoughts out. I think what he says half the time is not really real, and doubt seeps into my mind.
Don't come to visit. Don't make the subsequent goodbyes harder. Don't make me want what I should not have.
It is so true that some hellos are better said in passing. I should not have said hello.
I really should not have said... Hello.
Today, I spoke to someone I used to be obsessed with. Reading back on all the posts on this forum made me remember how crazy I was—crazy about him, crazy in life, crazy in every sense. I mean, I still am sort of crazy, but I had forgotten my past in a sense.
Swept it under layers of years, experiences, alcohol and drugs.
I reached out to Coo because I am faced with a dilemma in my life. Interestingly, I am now 7+ years married and living outside Sri Lanka. I live a very comfortable life. Remember how I used to cry and pray for a peaceful life? Well, God certainly gave me a lot of peace. There is so much peace that I am bored to tears. There's no satisfying us humans, is there? We are such fickle, irrational, unrealistic, illogical beings.
In a sense, I recently fucked up. And it made me reflect on how I dated a married guy. It was a lifetime ago, but it happened. My thought process was so black and white then. One was either all in or all out. I was such a child.
Now that I have experienced life and am a little more experienced, I realise it is not so simple. We humans have complicated desires—physical and mental—complicated wants and needs. And expecting one person to fulfil all those needs is a lot to ask.
I now question myself, Gurllll, now that you have all the peace and comfort you asked for, why the fuck are you going and intentionally being delusional and creating drama? Am I trying to fuck shit up? Stir the pot? Shit where I eat kinda thing?
Seriously. Somebody should have hit me hard in the head 10 years ago, maybe it might have knocked some sense into me.
Who knows, I might start journaling here again, I mean I already pay for professional help and that's clearly not really working is it? HAHA